Intergenerational Resolving Conflict Expert
TRANSFORM YOUR DIFFICULT, TRYING AND CONTENTIOUS CONVERSATIONS INTO EASIER CONNECTED CONVERSATIONS.
Wherever there's money and emotion, there's usually conflict, and I help the parties not just resolve differences, but restore their relationships with one another.
Conflict in families, in business and within yourself is inevitable.
But, how you respond to it is entirely in your control.
Conflict means that the stakes matter.
When you can talk about things that really matter, you build deeper connections. When you resolve conflicts, you find freedom.
When you improve your conversations, you improve the quality of your relationships and the quality of your life.
The core of my methodology is built on the premise that Conflict shows us we Care.
When we uncover the root cause we discover the unmet needs that are expressing themselves as immediate demands.
My process of the 5 C's helps you to
- Calibrate what's really going on
- Connect deeply with ourselves and others
- Clarify the issues with compassionate curiosity
- Collaborate with others to solve problems
- Create the life we want, starting with our inner world
It doesn’t have to be this way
“That’s just how it is,” says my friend about his family. Is that what you believe about your family also? Or is it with work where you say, “Well, that’s life.” I get it. We don’t know it can be any different. For me,…
A Dilemma
Last spring when things were starting to open up in California, one of my clients had a dilemma. Two of his key employees did not feel so keen or so safe coming back to work. And the owners in the business, his parents, were…
How to improve your relationship
Too often we believe that these relationships are stuck, and we wait, hope for the other person to change.
We want them to see how they are wrong, how they are hurting us so that they can change their behavior.